Don’t Be a Lazy Woman

As I was scrolling through Twitter AKA the platform for re-occurring and jarring debates, the discussion of finances and which gender was responsible for paying the rent was roused. I was beyond shocked and astounded to see the volume of women vehemently promoting that it is their husbands/partners sole duty to pay full rent or […]

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He Cares Not For Your Tear’s Sis

From the tender age of about 5 or 6, I remember being told “crying is for babies”, as I evolved in age it changed to “crying is a weakness”. As much as my weekly counselling sessions vehemently refute the latter statement I agree with it to a certain degree, crying is a valid emotion that […]

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The Joys of Turning 30…

I remember growing up looking at time, selecting certain age milestones and agonising over how far away I was from grasping at womanhood. Although I thoroughly embraced being a child I used to look at my older sister enjoying the freedom of being a teenager eagerly anticipating my turn. That was until my 28th birthday, […]

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Goodbye… For Now

Blogging has been one of the best things I have ever done, I wrote for a very long time and refused to release it to the world out of anxiety of what others would think and lack of confidence in my abilities. But I remember the feelings I had pressing publish on my first post […]

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New Year, New Mood

Have your experiences from last year changed the person you are today? Me too, check out how I plan to own 2019!!!

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The Perfect Lie

Source: Gentle Touch Plastic Surgery Social media is what I like to call a gift and a curse, on one hand, it is a smart networking and marketing tool. On the other hand, it is the smart networking and marketing tool. Still confused, me too but as we already know the apps allow us to […]

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My Love Lessons

I thought I had everything figured out when it came to men in my late teens, I remember sitting in our then kitchen on my very quiet and intimate family gathering for my 18th birthday listening to one of my aunt’s give a speech about growing into a woman. She is the realist aunt to […]

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Admitting Depression

Avid followers of Cheap Clothes 4 Heauxs would have noticed that I had been unusually quiet for a few months. As much as I often get plagued by the evil demon that is writer’s block, that was not the reason for my hiatus. I have always been a happy soul, I laugh at just about […]

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Why Kanye’s Slavery Concept isn’t Complete Nonsense

Source CNN Before I get deep into this post I am going to set it completely straight with a very clear disclaimer… I do not agree with Kanye West’s “Free Thinking” idealism at all. His self anointed wokeness has been spewed across my Twitter timeline for the last week or so and as a proud […]

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30 Before 30 Bucket List

Last Sunday I reached another milestone in my life, the 8th of April 2018 marked my 29th birthday and the last year of my twenties. Yes guys, I am almost 30 years old😣 30 is that year that is supposed to be the life-changing era, according to society you are supposed to have figured out […]

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