Don’t Be a Lazy Woman

As I was scrolling through Twitter AKA the platform for re-occurring and jarring debates, the discussion of finances and which gender was responsible for paying the rent was roused. I was beyond shocked and astounded to see the volume of women vehemently promoting that it is their husbands/partners sole duty to pay full rent or […]

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He Cares Not For Your Tear’s Sis

From the tender age of about 5 or 6, I remember being told “crying is for babies”, as I evolved in age it changed to “crying is a weakness”. As much as my weekly counselling sessions vehemently refute the latter statement I agree with it to a certain degree, crying is a valid emotion that […]

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The Joys of Turning 30…

I remember growing up looking at time, selecting certain age milestones and agonising over how far away I was from grasping at womanhood. Although I thoroughly embraced being a child I used to look at my older sister enjoying the freedom of being a teenager eagerly anticipating my turn. That was until my 28th birthday, […]

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My Love Lessons

I thought I had everything figured out when it came to men in my late teens, I remember sitting in our then kitchen on my very quiet and intimate family gathering for my 18th birthday listening to one of my aunt’s give a speech about growing into a woman. She is the realist aunt to […]

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Does The Music We Listen To Effect Our Behaviour?

For as long as I can recollect music, well rap music in particular has been held under great scrutiny for it’s correlation to violence, aggression, and misogyny. Over the years many lyrics from artists such as Tupac, Eminem, even our very own Giggs has been at the forefront of the debate of what effect music […]

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Inspiration For a New Year

It has come to that old fateful time where most people begin to reflect on all of their achievements and transgressions of the last year with deep scrutiny, analyse them and vow to never become their former shell ever again. Unfortunately guys I am one of those sentimental individuals who reaches the start of a […]

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Men Are Trash

Source: Zilla Ansa Men are trash… yeeeea I bloody said it, MEN ARE TRASH!!! I am pretty sure the few men that are drawn to my blog are going to either unsubscribe or just literally disregard me and my efforts but I am sorry but it is the damn truth. Before anyone gets excited and […]

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The Trouble With Friendship

“Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”  ― Oprah Winfrey During the summer months most social media platforms are cascaded with what the new age has dubbed “Squad Goals”, these tend to be photos of what […]

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